Dancing

So I just came back from Asylum and I pretty much danced the whole night.

I am a little sore and a bit sweaty but I had a great time.

I find great pleasure in dancing. It is one of those releases I've been talking about. It allows me to express myself through my motions and I enjoy moving to the music.

I am a courteous dancer. Basically that means that if there are few people on the floor I can take up a lot of space but when more people are there I "small" dance. Basically move around where there is room.

I am not the type of guy to intrude on someone's dance space, especially women. If they are inclined, they are welcome to come into my space, of course, and I dance with them. I know a lot of the women at the club and I am a safe person to put between me and "that" guy.

You know the type. The one that comes off the sidelines and just starts grinding or at least intruding. I am a good blocker generally and they can use me for assistance if they don't feel like getting off the floor.

Anyway, I met several nice women tonight who I danced with and several that "intruded" on my space from time to time. Good times. :)

In any event, I dance for myself, regardless of who is there or who is watching. If I like the song, I dance. If I don't, I stop unless asked to stay. Simple as that.

I guess it is a way to put myself out there for any potentials that may be interested and it also allows me to show my stuff, so to speak. :)

I have been told I dance well, so I have shed any self doubt months ago.

I am really starting to enjoy the "no worries" approach to dating/women now that I have finally got over my fear of rejection.

It took a while but I am starting to get it.