Synchronicity

I think there is something to the idea of synchronicity.

It is not really something that I think about that often, but it occurs to me that there are reasons beyond my understanding that I know who I know, I do what I do and things seem to work out for me.

Now, not every level of my existence seems to work like this, but I think that is mainly because I was TRYing too hard to say, get a girlfriend, when in fact now that I am not TRYing, the number of prospects has increased significantly.

Anyway, I think that the reason the positive things in my life happen is because I make them happen on a subconscious level, maybe even a quantum level. And, as we all know, quantum states are only know to a certain degree. Any more pushing and the uncertainty of the outcome will continue to rise.

Basically the more you know where something is right at this moment, the more you will have no clue where it is going to end up. And conversely, the more you know where something is headed, the less you know where it is at this moment.

Metaphorically, it is like, in the first sense, completely nailing down an idea and thoroughly fleshing it out but it ends up not having any relation to anything else after a while. Why? Because the states of everything around you are always in flux and hence no longer applicable to the specific idea that you had (nit-picky).

Also, the more you plan to do something in the future and all the possible implications and ramifications and plans you have, the less you know about what is happening right now (head in the clouds).

The whole short-sighted/long-sighted problem.

Either end of that spectrum and you are screwed.

Now, what does this have to do with synchronicity?

In my view it has everything to do with it. If you live in the now and are part of the next moment then all possibilities are laid out before you.

You are not limited by what you think is happening now and what "might" happen next because you do not have control of that. Nor are you pigeon-holed to a future that you want and highly probable that you won't be at.

Anyway, the synchronicity comes when you limit or get rid of your expectations and what you know you need will come to you. It just happens to happen because you are no longer blinded by your limited ideas of the past and future.

That is why I don't worry about anything (or rarely do), it is pointless and causes too much stress. Just BE and good things will come of it. EXPECT or TRY and you will either fail to achieve your expectation or your failure to achieve what you aren't will cause you undo stress.

Relax.

Enjoy yourself.

Happiness just is.